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And VPNs are illegal streams you prune!...if is ILLEGAL by any means to stream a 3pm kick off due to the EFL black out...God give me bloody strength with you
Its proposed that EFL lift the Blackout for the 2024-25 season
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Maybe, as he alluded too..he was lonely, had pressures (as we all do) and , like a lot go to games and vent/let off steam - him not being able too meant this was his outlet??
Yes he came across terribly..but where’s the compassion/thought?? Others on here give outright abuse and it’s not even questioned..
Furthermore..why are so many on social media triggered by what others/ how others react to what they think?? Particularly those they don’t know..I don’t get it. So many give the daft tick/crosses so much emphasis. It’s like a popularity thing..’ooh I need to be liked’ ..or as we know some use it the other way to belittle/knock others.. it’s pathetic. But it’s encouraged.
If you want to say something, in the right way, to encourage/debate/discuss then say it regardless. So what if people disagree/don’t like. And vice versa if someone gets on your nerves, or winds you up - don’t react, ignore..they’ll soon get fed up if on a wind up, and if - perhaps in this case who knows..they just need a sounding board/interaction or the feeling of…
In this day and age of mental health issues/after pandemic etc etc there are some whose lives have. Hanger drastically and impacts in ways others might not understand.
So allow them a second though before disregarding:slating:forcing out etc etc
(Appreciate this won’t go down well)
And if anyone is struggling reach out! There is a huge range of skills between us all. Everyone is good at something. Everyone struggles with other things. Most people will respond positively if contacted in private.
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marinerjase |
February 19, 2024, 4:46pm |
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Absolutely..I’ll be the first one to say didn’t help himself..but for a forum which has a massive thread on mental health issues/experience to then perhaps (if the case) make feel someone they aren’t welcomed…..🤷♂️
Anyway..said my piece..hopefully everyone, including myself, perhaps has a think on how to interact in future 👍
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davmariner |
February 19, 2024, 4:49pm |
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I hope he comes back after a break with a fresh approach. I know he’s supportive of Artell and thinks it’ll come good, and it would have been nicer to properly debate/discuss the reasons for and against.
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Hagrid |
February 19, 2024, 4:56pm |
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Maybe, as he alluded too..he was lonely, had pressures (as we all do) and , like a lot go to games and vent/let off steam - him not being able too meant this was his outlet??
Yes he came across terribly..but where’s the compassion/thought?? Others on here give outright abuse and it’s not even questioned..
Furthermore..why are so many on social media triggered by what others/ how others react to what they think?? Particularly those they don’t know..I don’t get it. So many give the daft tick/crosses so much emphasis. It’s like a popularity thing..’ooh I need to be liked’ ..or as we know some use it the other way to belittle/knock others.. it’s pathetic. But it’s encouraged.
If you want to say something, in the right way, to encourage/debate/discuss then say it regardless. So what if people disagree/don’t like. And vice versa if someone gets on your nerves, or winds you up - don’t react, ignore..they’ll soon get fed up if on a wind up, and if - perhaps in this case who knows..they just need a sounding board/interaction or the feeling of…
In this day and age of mental health issues/after pandemic etc etc there are some whose lives have. Hanger drastically and impacts in ways others might not understand.
So allow them a second though before disregarding:slating:forcing out etc etc
(Appreciate this won’t go down well)
Wouldn't say he has been forced out, but he was so antagonistic it was hard to have a conversation with him as every comment he took offence too and then threw back obscene comments. That said, i hope he's okay as The Fishy was clearly something he was very invested in
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grimsby pete |
February 19, 2024, 5:49pm |
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I never fell out with the bear.
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Did notice he always went back at people who disagreed with him.
I have always said talking about the post is the way to go instead of red crossing them.
But telling them to intercourse. off is not what I meant.
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Civvy at last |
February 19, 2024, 6:03pm |
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He asked to leave. Normally I give people 24 hours to confirm, but in his case I removed him straight away.
Absolutely disgraceful. And publicising it even worse. What do you want, a round of applause. There are regular posters on here that give far worse abuse to other posters than he has. I’m disappointed , but have to say not at all surprised. I used to defend this board to the many that slagged it off. Not any more I’m afraid. Free speech. Yeah right. Feel free to bring on the red crosses folks. I am fortunate that I really don’t give a sh1t.
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Northbank Mariner |
February 19, 2024, 6:12pm |
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Absolutely disgraceful. And publicising it even worse. What do you want, a round of applause. There are regular posters on here that give far worse abuse to other posters than he has. I’m disappointed , but have to say not at all surprised. I used to defend this board to the many that slagged it off. Not any more I’m afraid.
Free speech. Yeah right.
Feel free to bring on the red crosses folks. I am fortunate that I really don’t give a sh1t.
Lower your blood pressure. He asked to leave, Rob wanted him to take 24 hours before confirming but B&WB decided to leave straight away...Rob has nothing wrong here... And in respect to B&WB, unfortunately the bloke was just unreasonable, couldn't debate without getting sarky, aggressive or down right bloody rude, so I'm sorry, but I for one wasn't giving him an easy ride, if you want to say what you want then say it, but sometimes responses come with consequences. All that said I do hope he's OK,.....poor mental health is awful, after 30 years of suffering with it on and off, I can sympathise with him there.
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February 19, 2024, 6:12pm |
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Bet he comes back under a different alias - we'll soon tell. To be honest I hope he does - it's all in the fun even if most of us think a lot of his replies are shite. Come on B+WB you know you want to.
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GrimRob |
February 19, 2024, 6:14pm |
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Absolutely disgraceful. And publicising it even worse. What do you want, a round of applause. There are regular posters on here that give far worse abuse to other posters than he has. I’m disappointed , but have to say not at all surprised. I used to defend this board to the many that slagged it off. Not any more I’m afraid.
Free speech. Yeah right
I said he'd asked to leave so people would be able to distinguish it from being removed. But I see you've managed to spin it into him being a victim of free speech.
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