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Posted by: gobby, August 17, 2011, 8:53am
:o RIP Matty :o
Posted by: ticker_1610, August 17, 2011, 8:54am; Reply: 1
RIP young fella.
Posted by: Jarmo.Is.God, August 17, 2011, 8:54am; Reply: 2
is this the lad who posted his story about cancer ?
Posted by: 97 (Guest), August 17, 2011, 8:55am; Reply: 3
Oh no. Poor brave lad. thoughts with his family.
Posted by: mariner83, August 17, 2011, 8:55am; Reply: 4
RIP Matty
Posted by: STB, August 17, 2011, 8:56am; Reply: 5
RIP
Posted by: MuddyWaters, August 17, 2011, 8:56am; Reply: 6
Totally puts last night into perspective. RIP Matt.
Posted by: psgmariner, August 17, 2011, 8:57am; Reply: 7
That's terrible. Puts Town being crap in to perspective.
Posted by: Biccys, August 17, 2011, 8:57am; Reply: 8
Perspective has now kicked in.

RIP Matty, I was proud to have met you.
Posted by: Super Clive, August 17, 2011, 8:58am; Reply: 9
OMG ffs so so sad, cannot believe matty has passed away unbelievable, matt you was an inspiration, and a top lad, words don't describe how upset i am right now, this is a massive loss, to his family and club alike, I feel for mattys mum and dad who I have met a few times absolutely devastating also thoughts go to his siblings, I can't believe it

Love you man

UTM RIP special one  :( :( :( :( :(

Posted by: KnaresboroughMariner, August 17, 2011, 9:00am; Reply: 10
R.I.P.
Posted by: Mariner16, August 17, 2011, 9:00am; Reply: 11
RIP. Lost one of our own.
Posted by: voice of reason, August 17, 2011, 9:01am; Reply: 12
RIP...
Posted by: dapperz fun pub, August 17, 2011, 9:02am; Reply: 13
fooking awful news RIP
Posted by: ginnywings, August 17, 2011, 9:02am; Reply: 14
Awful news.

RIP Matt.
Posted by: 75 (Guest), August 17, 2011, 9:07am; Reply: 15
Awful news.
Posted by: the Grimbarian, August 17, 2011, 9:10am; Reply: 16
:o :o :o RIP Mate :o :o :o
Posted by: supertown, August 17, 2011, 9:10am; Reply: 17
RIP Matt
Posted by: marinerjase, August 17, 2011, 9:14am; Reply: 18
RIP Matty.
Posted by: mariner91, August 17, 2011, 9:17am; Reply: 19
Very sad, RIP.
Posted by: FishOutOfWater, August 17, 2011, 9:19am; Reply: 20
So so sad....you deserved so much better

RIP Matty
Posted by: pizzzza, August 17, 2011, 9:26am; Reply: 21
Terrible news, RIP
Posted by: Les Brechin, August 17, 2011, 9:28am; Reply: 22
RIP Matty, you were an inspiration to all. I was only talking to Matty in The Imp on Saturday. Tears in my eyes as I type this. Sleep well pal. Thoughts with Mattys family. xx
Posted by: Fishfinger, August 17, 2011, 9:29am; Reply: 23
Really gutted tbh. I met Matty a few times and he was genuinely a kind and friendly guy. It's also a big shame that GTFC had to so excrement for him just before he passed-let's hope they win on Saturday, for Matty.

RIP mate, Henry.
Posted by: mariner marc, August 17, 2011, 9:33am; Reply: 24
shows you how cruel life can be.Someone just out of their teens and their life taken away from them.Add to that all the pain physical and emotional he must of experienced whilst suffering from such a horrible illness

RIP Matt hope your someone better now
Posted by: cmackenzie4, August 17, 2011, 9:34am; Reply: 25
Quoted from MuddyWaters
Totally puts last night into perspective. RIP Matt.


Exactly my thoughts too

I never met matt unfortunately,this is a very sad day indeed,a true mariner fan as passed away  :'(

R.I.P Marinermatt

Chris Mackenzie
Posted by: Tommy, August 17, 2011, 9:35am; Reply: 26
RIP Matt
Posted by: Super Clive, August 17, 2011, 9:37am; Reply: 27
When I finish work I'm ringing the club I just feel like Matty deserves a minute applause against Cambridge, He has followed Town home and away and more importantly followed town nearly every single away match last season while still battling cancer, for that I have the utmost respect for matt always upbeat when things looked so down fro him, I feel honored to of known him, Really gutted  :( :(
Posted by: Marinerz93, August 17, 2011, 9:38am; Reply: 28
Devastating news, R.I.P. Matt, you fought against a terrible illness and put up one hell of brave fight, bless you Matt and condolences to your family.
Posted by: petethemariner, August 17, 2011, 9:39am; Reply: 29
Terrible news, a lad with  maturity beyond his years and more  bravery than most -  RIP Matt, you will be missed by all on the Fishy
Posted by: OneLove, August 17, 2011, 9:40am; Reply: 30
RIP what a sad day. Bless the lad, he was smiling on saturday in the imp, what a fighter he is. Hope this reflects on grimsby now and they can get us promoted for that lad. I think some kind of memoriam should be at BP for him.
Posted by: Chrisblor, August 17, 2011, 9:42am; Reply: 31
I've never known anyone to be so upbeat when faced with a cavalcade of terrible medical problems and a excrement football team. Makes me angry that Town have been so awful over the last few years as Matt deserved much more than that with all he's had to put up with. RIP
Posted by: The_Laughing_Mariner, August 17, 2011, 9:44am; Reply: 32
From his last few posts it had become obvious that this day would come sooner rather than later.  It is still a shock though.

RIP Matt I never met you but your story is an inspiration to us all.
Posted by: siy2k5, August 17, 2011, 9:47am; Reply: 33
Such a tragic waste of a young life. Rest in peace fella.
Posted by: brigg_mariner, August 17, 2011, 9:52am; Reply: 34
R.I.P. MATT
Posted by: wycombemariner, August 17, 2011, 9:53am; Reply: 35
Does anyone know if this guy posted as WAT on the GO?  Was he married to a girl called Sarah

Whatever the answers to the above, RIP young man.
Posted by: ska face, August 17, 2011, 9:58am; Reply: 36
Different lad wikkers.

Deepest condolences go out to his friends and family, I knew nothing of the lad but its surely a testament to how brave he was to still be living his life to the fullest right until the end of his cruelly short time with us.

RIP
Posted by: mighty_mariners, August 17, 2011, 10:00am; Reply: 37
R.I.P Matt
Posted by: Devonmatt, August 17, 2011, 10:04am; Reply: 38
Only knew Matt through this forum and don't totally understand why I feel such complete sadness right now.

My thoughts go out to the family and friends connected to this brave young man.

RIP Matt.
Posted by: CatchOfTheDay, August 17, 2011, 10:10am; Reply: 39
RIP Matty

I only knew about you because of the forum but you seemed like a nice guy  :( :( :( :(
Posted by: diehardmariner, August 17, 2011, 10:14am; Reply: 40
I logged on here this morning with every intention of going on a rant about how far Town have sunk, instead I saw this and my anger over a stupid game of football has gone.

Shankley was so far off the mark it's unreal.  I didn't even know this poor lad, aside from reading his posts on here, but I feel as if someone's just chucked a bowling ball down my throat.  

Deepest of sympathies to his family.

RIP.
Posted by: Lumpsleftbreast, August 17, 2011, 10:19am; Reply: 41
Quoted from diehardmariner
I logged on here this morning with every intention of going on a rant about how far Town have sunk, instead I saw this and my anger over a stupid game of football has gone.

Shankley was so far off the mark it's unreal.  I didn't even know this poor lad, aside from reading his posts on here, but I feel as if someone's just chucked a bowling ball down my throat.  

Deepest of sympathies to his family.

RIP.


Sums what I'm feeling perfectly.

RIP Matt
Posted by: blackandwhitetown, August 17, 2011, 10:20am; Reply: 42
I had the honour of meeting Matty and his parents last week.  Both showed tremendous strength in the face of what, to many, are truly unimaginable circumstances.

After spending just under an hour with him, it was clear that he was one of Town’s most passionate, knowledgeable and dedicated fans. The bravery and fortitude that he showed, despite his illness, was remarkable.

My thoughts go out to his family and all his friends at this time,

Rest in peace Matty
Posted by: Wrawby_Mariner, August 17, 2011, 10:24am; Reply: 43
Words cannot describe how I'm feeling right now, how we're all feeling right now, and my thoughts go out to your family. I am exremely proud to call you my friend and someone who I could share my problems with as you shared yours with me. Sitting, on the most part next to you at home games l was fit enough to attend taught me that no matter how how bad you think your own problems are, there is always some who has it worse and is dealing with it better. Matty Dawson you inspired me to get back on my feet and walk without help. There is not alot else I can say except you are a great guy and fantastic mate, also some divine intervention this season may be of use.


With Love and Respect


Marc 'Wrawbz' Reed
Posted by: cmackenzie4, August 17, 2011, 10:28am; Reply: 44
Quoted from Wrawby_Mariner
Words cannot describe how I'm feeling right now, how we're all feeling right now, and my thoughts go out to your family. I am exremely proud to call you my friend and someone who I could share my problems with as you shared yours with me. Sitting, on the most part next to you at home games l was fit enough to attend taught me that no matter how how bad you think your own problems are, there is always some who has it worse and is dealing with it better. Matty Dawson you inspired me to get back on my feet and walk without help. There is not alot else I can say except you are a great guy and fantastic mate, also some divine intervention this season may be of use.


With Love and Respect


Marc 'Wrawbz' Reed


Very nice words marc.
Posted by: sutton mariner, August 17, 2011, 10:29am; Reply: 45
What a loss.
I knew Matty personally and can't say how gutted I am.
He was a true fan, you see these plastic premiershite fans, compare them to Matty, they are nothing.
Will always be in my heart and will never be forgotten Matty
RIP buddy
Posted by: davmariner, August 17, 2011, 10:30am; Reply: 46
RIP Matty...
Posted by: grimsby pete, August 17, 2011, 10:33am; Reply: 47
What terrible news, RIP  Matt,

My thoughts go out to your family,
Posted by: gtfc_brad, August 17, 2011, 10:35am; Reply: 48
R.I.P mate
Posted by: Monkeytennis, August 17, 2011, 10:42am; Reply: 49
my deepest condolences to Matts family and friends
Posted by: Badger57, August 17, 2011, 10:52am; Reply: 50
My thoughts are with you and your family. RIP young man.
Posted by: foreverloyal72, August 17, 2011, 10:52am; Reply: 51
Quoted from Wrawby_Mariner
Words cannot describe how I'm feeling right now, how we're all feeling right now, and my thoughts go out to your family. I am exremely proud to call you my friend and someone who I could share my problems with as you shared yours with me. Sitting, on the most part next to you at home games l was fit enough to attend taught me that no matter how how bad you think your own problems are, there is always some who has it worse and is dealing with it better. Matty Dawson you inspired me to get back on my feet and walk without help. There is not alot else I can say except you are a great guy and fantastic mate, also some divine intervention this season may be of use.


With Love and Respect


Marc 'Wrawbz' Reed
couldnt have put it any better myself ......nice one wrawbz

Posted by: SuperBobbyC, August 17, 2011, 11:03am; Reply: 52
RIP fella - can only endorse all that's been said on here.  One brave guy.  Hope you and Icey get to see and cheer on, the long-awaited change in fortunes for our club, from up in the stars.
Posted by: jonnyboy82, August 17, 2011, 11:10am; Reply: 53
such a sad sad day..

managed to speak to matt a few times in the pontoon and a good one has been taken from us..

R.I.P :B
Posted by: flash1, August 17, 2011, 11:11am; Reply: 54
The bravery and courage you showed matty was an inspiration to everybody! like many have said your dedication to GTFC even through your illness was incredible!Such a young age to have left us,sleep well buddy!
Posted by: Perkins, August 17, 2011, 11:14am; Reply: 55
What a sad, sad, day.Everything else pales into insignificance today. A truly brave lad and an inspiration to us all.
Goodnight Matty. R.I.P.
Posted by: killingholmemariner, August 17, 2011, 11:18am; Reply: 56
Never met the guy unfortunately, But sounds like a credit to the club and will be missed by many.

RIP
Posted by: DavidB, August 17, 2011, 11:33am; Reply: 57
Very sad news - I didn't know Matty, but he sounds to have been a real battler against a cruel disease, and courageously positive in the light of overwhelming adversity. My condolences to his family and friends.
Posted by: kevikov, August 17, 2011, 11:34am; Reply: 58
R I P Matty. Sat behind you in the pontoon a few times, nice lad. Seems like we're losing a few lately.
Very sad news.
Posted by: Mandy Dunnit vs Hettie, August 17, 2011, 11:34am; Reply: 59
RIP Matt. Tragic news and as so many have said, puts everything into perspective.
If there's such a thing as football heaven we've got some fantastic fans up there and you are among the best of them.
Posted by: WackyCod, August 17, 2011, 11:36am; Reply: 60
Rest In Peace Matt
Posted by: GTFC_Dave, August 17, 2011, 11:40am; Reply: 61
RIP Matty
Posted by: GG, August 17, 2011, 11:57am; Reply: 62
I can only echo what others have said so rest in peace Matty, you were an inspiration to us all. You touched the hearts of us all with your never-give-up attitude and I was genuinely choked when I found out the bad news.

My sincere and heartfelt condolences to your family.
Posted by: JazzMariner, August 17, 2011, 12:17pm; Reply: 63
RIP Matty and condolences to his family.

Was thinking last night when watching the over reaction by many that it was only a football match and not that important in the context of things. This news proves my thoughts.
Posted by: Zmariner, August 17, 2011, 12:18pm; Reply: 64
RIP - gutted and so unfair
Posted by: gillygill, August 17, 2011, 12:25pm; Reply: 65
Only spoken to Matt a couple of times, through taking Wrawbz to the home games, seemed like a nice lad, obviously passionate about Town. Something like this puts everything else into perspective and I've read this thread with a lump in my throat.
Heartfelt condolences to your family and friends
RIP Matt.
Posted by: BKMariner, August 17, 2011, 12:25pm; Reply: 66
RIP Matty.
Posted by: Lew19, August 17, 2011, 12:28pm; Reply: 67
There's only one Matty Dawson
one!!!! Matty Dawson
walking along singing a song
walking in a Dawson wounder land!!!!
R.I.P Matty never forgotten!!! :'(
Posted by: AndyGTFC, August 17, 2011, 12:36pm; Reply: 68
Awful news. Hope he gets a minutes silence whether it be Saturday or the home game next Tuesday.  RIP Matty.
Posted by: PPMariner, August 17, 2011, 12:42pm; Reply: 69
R.I.P. fella, heartfelt condolences to your family
Posted by: headingly_mariner, August 17, 2011, 12:43pm; Reply: 70
Met him a couple of times at away games and he was a genuinely nice bloke, proper chatty and town mad. shocking news.
Posted by: Les Brechin, August 17, 2011, 12:44pm; Reply: 71
Have been thinking about Matty since I first saw the news and I'm not ashamed to admit that I've been in tears. I got to know Matty quite well over the past year or so and we'd had a few personal chats between us over that time.

I've not been in the best emotional state recently myself and after coming round from surgery only to hear that we'd lost so heavily to Braintree I was devastated and very angry and then to hear the news about Matty just made everything that happened last night inconsequential.

This,had made me all the more determined to get out of here as soon as possible and I then plan to hold some sort of fundraising event in Mattys memory (and ideas) and all proceeds raised will go to a charity of Mattys families choice.

It's times like this that makes me wonder if there is anybody up there as if there is why are they so cruel, life is so unfair.

RIP MATTY. YOU'LL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN. THAT NUMBER 24 SHIRT IN THE PROGRAMME SHOULD BE YOURS FOR LIFE.
Posted by: GrimRob, August 17, 2011, 12:47pm; Reply: 72
RIP a tragic loss. Let him not be forgotten. He'll be up there singing for Town (majnu)
Posted by: GrimsbyOllie, August 17, 2011, 12:47pm; Reply: 73
Awful news,RIP Matty and condolences to his family.
Posted by: cmackenzie4, August 17, 2011, 12:50pm; Reply: 74
Quoted from Les Brechin
Have been thinking about Matty since I first saw the news and I'm not ashamed to admit that I've been in tears. I got to know Matty quite well over the past year or so and we'd had a few personal chats between us over that time.

I've not been in the best emotional state recently myself and after coming round from surgery only to hear that we'd lost so heavily to Braintree I was devastated and very angry and then to hear the news about Matty just made everything that happened last night inconsequential.

This,had made me all the more determined to get out of here as soon as possible and I then plan to hold some sort of fundraising event in Mattys memory (and ideas) and all proceeds raised will go to a charity of Mattys families choice.

It's times like this that makes me wonder if there is anybody up there as if there is why are they so cruel, life is so unfair.

RIP MATTY. YOU'LL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN. THAT NUMBER 24 SHIRT IN THE PROGRAMME SHOULD BE YOURS FOR LIFE.


Great words Les, you are a star too,what about a sponsored bike ride or a walk id be well up for this and im sure lots on here would too.

chris
Posted by: Rodley Mariner, August 17, 2011, 12:51pm; Reply: 75
RIP Matt.

Similarly to others I never met Matt but have followed his progress on here. It was clear that he was a very brave young man who obviously loved GTFC. Thoughts are with his family and friends.
Posted by: lukeo, August 17, 2011, 1:05pm; Reply: 76
RIP Matty, never spoken to him before but seen him around and clearly a true dedicated Town fan, nothing less than a minute applause should be given for what is a true GTFC Fan.

R.I.P Matt x
Posted by: gtfc98, August 17, 2011, 1:09pm; Reply: 77
R.I.P. MarinerMatt. Puts things into perspective, thoughts go out to friends and family.

Up The Mariners
Posted by: Corkyefes, August 17, 2011, 1:12pm; Reply: 78
Even though i never met the lad, he was such an inspiration.

RIP Matt! I know you'll be watching the mariners from the upper upper findus!

Condolences are with his family and friends at this sad time.

'Andy'
Posted by: punk mariner, August 17, 2011, 1:31pm; Reply: 79
such terrible news. I met Matt a few times and never once heard him complain about being ill...he was too busy chatting about Town! only the other week we were talking online about how excited we were for the new season and the high hopes we had for Town. a really lovely kid who shouldnt have had to have gone through what he did over the last few months. His fight, dedication and optimism should be an inspiration to all fans and the team. RIP Matty and UTM!
Posted by: 470 (Guest), August 17, 2011, 1:33pm; Reply: 80
RIP Matt, a really brave young man, such a shame. :o

Like others have said, was so angry and ashamed about Grimsby Town yesterday I could not put into words how I felt, but now it just doesn't seem to matter now.

Makes me wonder if there is a God and if there is why take away the good, decent people in life.

Like previously mentioned, I hope their is a minutes silence or a round of applause at the next home game as a mark of respect for this brave young gentlemen.

My thoughts to all family and friends in this time of sadness.
Posted by: The Singing Fisherman, August 17, 2011, 1:42pm; Reply: 81
Very sad news. RIP Matty
Posted by: AdamHaddock, August 17, 2011, 1:45pm; Reply: 82
RIP Matt
Posted by: 1600 (Guest), August 17, 2011, 1:46pm; Reply: 83
Very sad RIP Matty
Posted by: upthestripes, August 17, 2011, 1:55pm; Reply: 84
This is the post I have been dreading for a while. Aweful news. 19 years old, what a waste of a wonderful and inspirational young life.
Things really coudn't get much grimmer at the minute. RIP Matt, if there is any justice whatsoever you will be somewhere much much better.  :'(
Posted by: tamworthlad, August 17, 2011, 2:06pm; Reply: 85
Came on this forum to laugh at how you are bottom of the table with -7 gd ect ect...

Saw this post and even though I didnt know the guy, I am/ was  :B  the same age as him and felt deeply upset by it, puts things into a perspective really,

RIP matty, and  best of luck for the rest of the season.
Posted by: blackandwhitelaces, August 17, 2011, 2:12pm; Reply: 86
RIP Matty   a true mariner
Posted by: Richard, August 17, 2011, 2:14pm; Reply: 87
RIP  matty  
Posted by: findusrich, August 17, 2011, 2:33pm; Reply: 88
RIP Matty  true supporter and  saddened to hear of his passing  
Posted by: tarka, August 17, 2011, 2:41pm; Reply: 89
RIP Matt - a tragic waste of a young life.  Most of all my thoughts are with his parents, I can't even imagine what it must be like to lose a child at such a young age under these circumstances.
Posted by: GtfcGarner, August 17, 2011, 3:15pm; Reply: 90
Rip Matt, hopefully he will shine down on us and make the lads play some real football. Gone but never forgotten
Posted by: wembley_double98, August 17, 2011, 3:15pm; Reply: 91
Very saddened by this tragic news, myself and my family send our condolences to Matty's family.
RIP young man
Posted by: Japers, August 17, 2011, 3:23pm; Reply: 92
RIP
Posted by: AndyDarloFC, August 17, 2011, 3:49pm; Reply: 93
RIP Matty mate; Only ever met you once. I'll have a drink for you next weekend when I come down for our game! Me & Marc are planning to get a few t-shirts done to show our respect for you, at the game! Make sure your looking down on your team and lead them into a new direction and upwards in the league!

Gone, but never forgotten!
Posted by: connorGTFC, August 17, 2011, 4:27pm; Reply: 94
is this the poor lad who had cancer and shorty and shouty visited in hospital
Posted by: Gainsbro_Mariner, August 17, 2011, 4:28pm; Reply: 95
RIP Matty..sad news!
Posted by: Wrawby_Mariner, August 17, 2011, 4:32pm; Reply: 96
Quoted from AndyDarloFC
RIP Matty mate; Only ever met you once. I'll have a drink for you next weekend when I come down for our game! Me & Marc are planning to get a few t-shirts done to show our respect for you, at the game! Make sure your looking down on your team and lead them into a new direction and upwards in the league!

Gone, but never forgotten!


Thats the plan mate
Posted by: Tinymariner, August 17, 2011, 4:53pm; Reply: 97
RIP Matty, such a lovely lad. My thoughts are with your family right now.
Posted by: cleemariner1again, August 17, 2011, 5:10pm; Reply: 98
R.I.P Matty :o
Was a real honour to have met and known you,your are a true inspiration to us all!sad sad day !

my thoughts are with your family
Posted by: BiloLCFC, August 17, 2011, 5:24pm; Reply: 99
Needless to say I never met Matt but I have read through the thread of his courageous fight against this evil disease and it really does show how brave, decent and resilient the chap was.

RIP Matt.
Posted by: mr viv, August 17, 2011, 5:27pm; Reply: 100
Life is so unfair sometimes :oR.I.P. :o
Posted by: gary_elton, August 17, 2011, 6:22pm; Reply: 101
Never met you Matt , but RIP a true Mariner.....
Posted by: Mariner Ronnie, August 17, 2011, 6:23pm; Reply: 102
very very sad news, it hit me hard today to hear a very nice and harmless young man died of this horrible disease, and who fighted very bravely

RIP matt  :'(
Posted by: carrot top, August 17, 2011, 6:25pm; Reply: 103
Sad to see this. Saw him at the game on Saturday. My heart goes out to his Parents. RIP
Posted by: topuphere666, August 17, 2011, 6:33pm; Reply: 104
RIP Matty!!

Hope the boys can use this horrendous story to make them realise they are very privileged in what they do!
Posted by: Simariner, August 17, 2011, 6:38pm; Reply: 105
Terrible news, puts last nights urine poor performance into perspective

RIP Mate
Posted by: Poultice, August 17, 2011, 6:41pm; Reply: 106
Sad news about this lad Matty, Grimsby Les, who many of you will know, mentioned his passing on Exeweb.

I would like to express my condolences to his friends and family, 19 is far too young an age to be losing someone at.

RIP Matty from a fellow football fan.
Posted by: conscorner, August 17, 2011, 6:43pm; Reply: 107
Had the pleasure of meeting Matt on several away trips - a passionate and dedicated supporter.

Very sad to hear this news.

RIP Matty
Posted by: bobbyturtle, August 17, 2011, 6:51pm; Reply: 108
Rip matt
Posted by: lawless29, August 17, 2011, 6:52pm; Reply: 109
R.I.P MATT never met him in person but did chat a bit on facebook he nevr moaned once about this horrible illness either he just loved his football you will be missed
Posted by: alvinghammariner, August 17, 2011, 7:05pm; Reply: 110
Rip matt, gut wrenching news, I wish the club has as much fight as you, a true fighter
Posted by: MyDogsThoughts, August 17, 2011, 7:13pm; Reply: 111
RIP Mate.
Posted by: Mighty_Mariner, August 17, 2011, 7:24pm; Reply: 112
Gutted! Had the pleasure of speaking to Matt at a couple if games last season, lively lad and was always singing load and proud!! Makes you realise just how unimportant and insignificant football really is!

Really hope the club do something for the next home match.... Minute's applause/silence?

Sleep well matey!  :'(
Posted by: barralad, August 17, 2011, 8:19pm; Reply: 113
I've just re-read the whole of the "Cancer Journey" thread. What struck me even more was the matter of fact way that this incredibly brave young man dealt with the increasingly bad news that he was getting. I am almost three times his age and yet I know without a shadow of doubt that if I'd walked in his shoes I'd have done it as a gibbering wreck.

That thread should be locked and saved for posterity so that anyone fed up at the fortunes of the team can look at it and remind themselves of someone who faced terrible illness with the utmost dignity.

Thoughts are with Matt's parents. The old adage is true. You just shouldn't bury your kids... :'(
Posted by: samg, August 17, 2011, 8:25pm; Reply: 114
RIP Matty - thoughts go out to parents, family and friends
Posted by: Pontoon Steve, August 17, 2011, 8:25pm; Reply: 115
Didn't realise until i came on here how many friends Matty really had, when the funeral arrangments have been made the family will post it. All that can be said at the min about it, is that it is not a black tie job, the family want a celebration of Matty's life and for everyone to wear football shirts. As most people on here should now realise Matty lived and died football. :)
Posted by: bladerunnner, August 17, 2011, 8:31pm; Reply: 116
i first saw him in the imp on Saturday,he was in a wheelchair with all kinds of pipes and stuff coming out of him,this lad comes out in that state to support his team,whilst other "fans" of town sit in their armchairs with their doritos and opinions slagging the team,the chairman,and most importantly the real "fans" off. i looked him in the eye and he smiled at me,even at that stage of illness he was friendly,positive,warm,and a real true fan.
i looked at him and felt embarrassed,not for him,but for myself,for he made me feel so humble with his bravery and spirit.
i know its way to early but if his poor parents ever read this thread they will realise he was special,not because he had cancer,but because he touched so many peoples lives and everyone who knew him loved him............rest in peace matty,we town fans will NEVER forget you xxxx. :B
Posted by: Jimmy_Hills_Chin, August 17, 2011, 8:33pm; Reply: 117
R.I.P Matt. My thoughts and condolences to your family and friends.
Posted by: jock dock tower, August 17, 2011, 8:50pm; Reply: 118
So, so, sorry to hear of the lad's sad passing. So very glad though that the Town visited him prior to it and made him feel so very special. Surely that puts most things into context...you can make dreams, and destroy them. Never met you Matty but feel I know you from your postings on here, and your bravery in the face of such adversity. If Icenian's reading this, take care of Matty.
Posted by: Grim up north, August 17, 2011, 9:03pm; Reply: 119
R.I.P. Fellow Mariner.
Posted by: codcheeky, August 17, 2011, 9:53pm; Reply: 120
Always courageous and an inspiration R I P Matty
Posted by: Neilo83, August 17, 2011, 10:01pm; Reply: 121
R.I.P matt, you're a proper inspiration, take it easy up there pal!
Posted by: Townfantom, August 17, 2011, 10:02pm; Reply: 122
I've stayed off this forum all day and logged on a minute ago to have a rant about town, But now I don't give a toss about the result or team. It makes you realise how precious life is and how you should make the most of it. I only knew Matt through here and facebook but seemed like a top lad.

Rest in Peace Matt.

Tom x
Posted by: Liam94, August 18, 2011, 2:13am; Reply: 123
Such a brave lad only knew you from here but seemed a great guy as well.
R.I.P Matt
Posted by: Brisbane Mariner, August 18, 2011, 6:25am; Reply: 124
Sad to hear about an untimely demise but RIP Matty - lets hoope the players can make you proud and do something in youir honour! :B
Posted by: Les Brechin, August 18, 2011, 8:08am; Reply: 125
I'm sure Matty will be having a good chat with Icey about Town by now.
Posted by: Redfish, August 18, 2011, 8:59am; Reply: 126
Cant believe it, just sat here waiting for my taxi to go back into hospital.  Thought I,d have a quick look to see if Matt had commented on Tuesday night only to get this news. Only got to know Matt through the forum but really thought of him as a friend. Cant put in words how gutted I feel right now, my thoughts are with his family and friends, so sad and tragic. You are a star and legend my friend, so glad you managed Tuesday night, makes it even more special now. RIP Matt.
Posted by: Super Clive, August 18, 2011, 9:23am; Reply: 127
http://www.thisisgrimsby.co.uk/Heartfelt-tributes-paid-wonderful-GTFC-fan/story-13155153-detail/story.html

:(
Posted by: laitey, August 18, 2011, 10:16am; Reply: 128
seen him a few times and hes a TRUE MARINER RIP
Posted by: upthestripes, August 18, 2011, 2:55pm; Reply: 129
Quoted from Les Brechin
I'm sure Matty will be having a good chat with Icey about Town by now.


A lovely thought, I really, reaaaaaally hope so mate
Posted by: BiloLCFC, August 18, 2011, 5:51pm; Reply: 130
I just thought I'd say a couple of my Leicester mates who have nothing to do with The Fishy or GTFC have also liked the Facebook page set-up in memory of Matty, so word is spreading and fans of all clubs are showing their respect towards a lad who was a true fighter. Just goes to show how insignificant football is and yet its ability to bring people together at the same time.

Posted by: meggietown, August 18, 2011, 7:44pm; Reply: 131
R.I.P Matty a very sad loss thoughts with family
Posted by: thedmariner, August 18, 2011, 7:57pm; Reply: 132
was with matt at game on sat.could see he was in pain but never complained.great lad and an absolutely tragic loss for his family.i just want to thank all the nice comments on here and other sites,im sure it will help his family through this sad time.also big thanks to gtfc for what they have done for him.     rip
Posted by: Pontoon Steve, August 18, 2011, 8:31pm; Reply: 133
Matty funeral is to take place on Wednesday 24th August at St James Church Louth at 11am all invited. At the request of Matty Football shirts (don't matter what team as Matt only lived for football), scarfs or bright clothing no mourning attire please as we want to celebrate Matt's life.
Posted by: Brazilnut, August 18, 2011, 9:26pm; Reply: 134
only found out when glanced at this is grimsby at work today.......cant get on fishy from work..........Matt talked sense , had a sense of humour and faced his nemisis with massive courage......i will miss his posts .......so sorry for his family ....it is no age and not fair ........RIP mate
Posted by: sutton mariner, August 18, 2011, 10:17pm; Reply: 135
Quoted from Pontoon Steve
Matty funeral is to take place on Wednesday 24th August at St James Church Louth at 11am all invited. At the request of Matty Football shirts (don't matter what team as Matt only lived for football), scarfs or bright clothing no mourning attire please as we want to celebrate Matt's life.


Living in London I can't make im afraid but im sure there's a lot of people on here who will be mate. My thoughts are with you and the rest of Matt's family. As you can tell by the posts on here Matt was a legend, a brave one at that, and he will NEVER be forgotten by the Fishy Folk.

EDIT: Also, is there a specific charity Matt supported?   Cheers
Posted by: marinerian, August 18, 2011, 10:23pm; Reply: 136
RIP Matty. I may nit have known you well but such a sad loss..My thoughts are with his family and friends
Posted by: newfootballer, August 18, 2011, 11:04pm; Reply: 137
Quoted from alvinghammariner
Rip matt, gut wrenching news, I wish the club has as much fight as you, a true fighter


To me that above says it all.

Hope now Matty your problems are over and you can sleep at night with out any pain, met you in the Imp great guy,fantastic Town supporter loved his club to bits.
NEW FOOTBALLER
Posted by: ponnyfan, August 18, 2011, 11:50pm; Reply: 138
I have just returned from two days away with work, and I have just read with great humility, this heart rendering thread about Matty.
I first met Matty towards the last few games of last season, when he introduced himself to me at a home game, through a mutual friend, Marc Reed.Having previously read about Matty's plight on his journey thread, I understood, to a degree what he was going through.
I can only say that he was clearly, absolutely mad on Town and this was clearly evident throughout our conversation.Not once did he show any signs of feeling sorry for himself, despite his predicament.
I remember Matty being on the "Battlebus" to Wimbledon on the last game of last season with his Dad and remember thinking how much he seemed to enjoy the day.The sun shone brightly that day, just as I hope it is shining on you now Matty.  
Through reading the Fishy, following the Donny friendly, it was apparent that Matty was seriously ill.
I went to see Matty a couple of weeks ago, at his home in Louth, to give him my best wishes and to try and add some cheer to his day, through talking to him about the Mariners.
I was welcomed  into his home by members of his family and when I went up to see him, I was delighted to see him sat in his chair, laptop across his knees, surfing his beloved "Fishy".We had a chat, and I remember thinking what an outstandingly courageous young man, I had had the great privilege to have met. He was cheerful and positive, even in the face of great adversity, and a credit to his family.
Before I left, following my short visit, I chatted to his Mum, Dot, who I can only describe as an absolute rock for her son.She told me how Matty and the family had enjoyed a family holiday to Paris and they had spent great quality time together.As I thanked her for her time and left, I felt a great sense of sadness at the injustice in this world.Imagine my surprise when Matty summoned the courage and belief to entertain Michael Leary, meet the management and players at both the training ground and in hospital and share this with us all on the Fishy! Fantastic!He attended the Fleetwood game too and proudly wore his squad number, as did his family!  
I am sorry to say that this was the last time I spoke to Matty and I am deeply saddened by his loss.
I would just like to finally say that we are all proud of you Matty and I add my tribute to you, to the hundreds of others on your favourite Town website.Good night - God bless fellow Mariner!  

Posted by: cmackenzie4, August 18, 2011, 11:55pm; Reply: 139
Quoted from ponnyfan
I have just returned from two days away with work, and I have just read with great humility, this heart rendering thread about Matty.
I first met Matty towards the last few games of last season, when he introduced himself to me at a home game, through a mutual friend, Marc Reed.Having previously read about Matty's plight on his journey thread, I understood, to a degree what he was going through.
I can only say that he was clearly, absolutely mad on Town and this was clearly evident throughout our conversation.Not once did he show any signs of feeling sorry for himself, despite his predicament.
I remember Matty being on the "Battlebus" to Wimbledon on the last game of last season with his Dad and remember thinking how much he seemed to enjoy the day.The sun shone brightly that day, just as I hope it is shining on you now Matty.  
Through reading the Fishy, following the Donny friendly, it was apparent that Matty was seriously ill.
I went to see Matty a couple of weeks ago, at his home in Louth, to give him my best wishes and to try and add some cheer to his day, through talking to him about the Mariners.
I was welcomed  into his home by members of his family and when I went up to see him, I was delighted to see him sat in his chair, laptop across his knees, surfing his beloved "Fishy".We had a chat, and I remember thinking what an outstandingly courageous young man, I had had the great privilege to have met. He was cheerful and positive, even in the face of great adversity, and a credit to his family.
Before I left, following my short visit, I chatted to his Mum, Dot, who I can only describe as an absolute rock for her son.She told me how Matty and the family had enjoyed a family holiday to Paris and they had spent great quality time together.As I thanked her for her time and left, I felt a great sense of sadness at the injustice in this world.Imagine my surprise when Matty summoned the courage and belief to entertain Michael Leary, meet the management and players at both the training ground and in hospital and share this with us all on the Fishy! Fantastic!He attended the Fleetwood game too and proudly wore his squad number, as did his family!  
I am sorry to say that this was the last time I spoke to Matty and I am deeply saddened by his loss.
I would just like to finally say that we are all proud of you Matty and I add my tribute to you, to the hundreds of others on your favourite Town website.Good night - God bless fellow Mariner!  



Brilliant post Ponnyfan
Posted by: Martz86, August 19, 2011, 12:22am; Reply: 140
Great post Ponnyfan. RIP Matty.
Posted by: Marinerz93, August 19, 2011, 12:35am; Reply: 141
Excellent tribute Ponnyfan.
Posted by: sutton mariner, August 19, 2011, 12:39am; Reply: 142
Great tribute Ponny
Posted by: Wrawby_Mariner, August 19, 2011, 12:46am; Reply: 143
Quoted from ponnyfan
I have just returned from two days away with work, and I have just read with great humility, this heart rendering thread about Matty.
I first met Matty towards the last few games of last season, when he introduced himself to me at a home game, through a mutual friend, Marc Reed.Having previously read about Matty's plight on his journey thread, I understood, to a degree what he was going through.
I can only say that he was clearly, absolutely mad on Town and this was clearly evident throughout our conversation.Not once did he show any signs of feeling sorry for himself, despite his predicament.
I remember Matty being on the "Battlebus" to Wimbledon on the last game of last season with his Dad and remember thinking how much he seemed to enjoy the day.The sun shone brightly that day, just as I hope it is shining on you now Matty.  
Through reading the Fishy, following the Donny friendly, it was apparent that Matty was seriously ill.
I went to see Matty a couple of weeks ago, at his home in Louth, to give him my best wishes and to try and add some cheer to his day, through talking to him about the Mariners.
I was welcomed  into his home by members of his family and when I went up to see him, I was delighted to see him sat in his chair, laptop across his knees, surfing his beloved "Fishy".We had a chat, and I remember thinking what an outstandingly courageous young man, I had had the great privilege to have met. He was cheerful and positive, even in the face of great adversity, and a credit to his family.
Before I left, following my short visit, I chatted to his Mum, Dot, who I can only describe as an absolute rock for her son.She told me how Matty and the family had enjoyed a family holiday to Paris and they had spent great quality time together.As I thanked her for her time and left, I felt a great sense of sadness at the injustice in this world.Imagine my surprise when Matty summoned the courage and belief to entertain Michael Leary, meet the management and players at both the training ground and in hospital and share this with us all on the Fishy! Fantastic!He attended the Fleetwood game too and proudly wore his squad number, as did his family!  
I am sorry to say that this was the last time I spoke to Matty and I am deeply saddened by his loss.
I would just like to finally say that we are all proud of you Matty and I add my tribute to you, to the hundreds of others on your favourite Town website.Good night - God bless fellow Mariner!  



Thanks for a great read Ponny, really brought a tear to my eye
Posted by: somersetmariner, August 19, 2011, 1:57am; Reply: 144
Matt, only this weekend i saw your pictures with the town squad, i never met you and i have no understanding or appreciation of the trauma you and your loving family must have been through.
God bless Matt, mr twenty four, my thoughts are with your family.  
Posted by: Les Brechin, August 19, 2011, 6:20am; Reply: 145
A great post Ponnyfan. Sums up just how well Matty was thought of by everybody. I think he touched the lives of everyone he came in contact with, not only on here and I don't think you'll find many other people that would apply too. Hopefully I will be out of hospital in time to attend Mattys funeral and pay my own personal respects  but whatever happens I will be thinking about Matty and his family at that time.
Posted by: newfootballer, August 19, 2011, 7:42am; Reply: 146
Quoted from Les Brechin
A great post Ponnyfan. Sums up just how well Matty was thought of by everybody. I think he touched the lives of everyone he came in contact with, not only on here and I don't think you'll find many other people that would apply too. Hopefully I will be out of hospital in time to attend Mattys funeral and pay my own personal respects  but whatever happens I will be thinking about Matty and his family at that time.


Also you look after yourself Les and do not rush coming back to see the Mighty Mariners to soon.

(WELL THAT WILL BE A WASTE OFF TIME WILL IT NOT)

Great to see you Saturday Les and hope things go right for you in the future.
NEWFOOTBALLER
Posted by: Les Brechin, August 19, 2011, 8:04am; Reply: 147


Thanks for that Dave but I don't want to divert this thread away from Mattys memory. I'm sure many people on here will be going to Mattys funeral and I hope that the club will be well represented too, but I would like to propose that everyone who reads this, if they are not going to the funeral, should take just a couple of minutes time for thoughts about Matty at 11am next Wednesday.
Posted by: Pontoon Steve, August 19, 2011, 10:59am; Reply: 148


Quote from Sutton Mariner.

Living in London I can't make im afraid but im sure there's a lot of people on here who will be mate. My thoughts are with you and the rest of Matt's family. As you can tell by the posts on here Matt was a legend, a brave one at that, and he will NEVER be forgotten by the Fishy Folk.

EDIT: Also, is there a specific charity Matt supported?   Cheers

If any one would like to give to charity Matts chosen charity is CLIC Sargent who looked after children with cancer, who was with us on this journey from day 1 up until the final day. The details for Matty's funeral arrangments and donations are in todays GET.
Posted by: sutton mariner, August 19, 2011, 11:12am; Reply: 149
Okay Steve, thanks for that mate.
Posted by: mariner marc, August 19, 2011, 12:04pm; Reply: 150
Quoted from Les Brechin
I'm sure Matty will be having a good chat with Icey about Town by now.
:)   hope so

Posted by: Devonmatt, August 19, 2011, 12:30pm; Reply: 151
Quoted from ponnyfan
I have just returned from two days away with work, and I have just read with great humility, this heart rendering thread about Matty.
I first met Matty towards the last few games of last season, when he introduced himself to me at a home game, through a mutual friend, Marc Reed.Having previously read about Matty's plight on his journey thread, I understood, to a degree what he was going through.
I can only say that he was clearly, absolutely mad on Town and this was clearly evident throughout our conversation.Not once did he show any signs of feeling sorry for himself, despite his predicament.
I remember Matty being on the "Battlebus" to Wimbledon on the last game of last season with his Dad and remember thinking how much he seemed to enjoy the day.The sun shone brightly that day, just as I hope it is shining on you now Matty.  
Through reading the Fishy, following the Donny friendly, it was apparent that Matty was seriously ill.
I went to see Matty a couple of weeks ago, at his home in Louth, to give him my best wishes and to try and add some cheer to his day, through talking to him about the Mariners.
I was welcomed  into his home by members of his family and when I went up to see him, I was delighted to see him sat in his chair, laptop across his knees, surfing his beloved "Fishy".We had a chat, and I remember thinking what an outstandingly courageous young man, I had had the great privilege to have met. He was cheerful and positive, even in the face of great adversity, and a credit to his family.
Before I left, following my short visit, I chatted to his Mum, Dot, who I can only describe as an absolute rock for her son.She told me how Matty and the family had enjoyed a family holiday to Paris and they had spent great quality time together.As I thanked her for her time and left, I felt a great sense of sadness at the injustice in this world.Imagine my surprise when Matty summoned the courage and belief to entertain Michael Leary, meet the management and players at both the training ground and in hospital and share this with us all on the Fishy! Fantastic!He attended the Fleetwood game too and proudly wore his squad number, as did his family!  
I am sorry to say that this was the last time I spoke to Matty and I am deeply saddened by his loss.
I would just like to finally say that we are all proud of you Matty and I add my tribute to you, to the hundreds of others on your favourite Town website.Good night - God bless fellow Mariner!  



Blubbing again!  Great words ponny.
Posted by: bradzmilne, August 19, 2011, 1:10pm; Reply: 152
R.I.P MATTY. You are definatly the most brave person i have ever met, you put a positive spin on everything even though your postition was bleak, wish i got to speak to you again on saturday but i no you will be in a better place now. Like others have said am sure he will be having a chat with icey now. R.I.P Matty sleep well.
Brad Milne x
Posted by: Les Brechin, August 19, 2011, 1:25pm; Reply: 153
Quoted from bradzmilne
R.I.P MATTY. You are definatly the most brave person i have ever met, you put a positive spin on everything even though your postition was bleak, wish i got to speak to you again on saturday but i no you will be in a better place now. Like others have said am sure he will be having a chat with icey now. R.I.P Matty sleep well.
Brad Milne x


And I'm sure Marc North and Big Keef will have bored them both to tears by now telling them all about our win at Middlesborough.
Posted by: bradzmilne, August 19, 2011, 1:29pm; Reply: 154
Quoted from Les Brechin


And I'm sure Marc North and Big Keef will have bored them both to tears by now telling them all about our win at Middlesborough.


that will have 100% happened by now les
Posted by: tarka, August 19, 2011, 1:31pm; Reply: 155
Quoted from ponnyfan
I have just returned from two days away with work, and I have just read with great humility, this heart rendering thread about Matty.
I first met Matty towards the last few games of last season, when he introduced himself to me at a home game, through a mutual friend, Marc Reed.Having previously read about Matty's plight on his journey thread, I understood, to a degree what he was going through.
I can only say that he was clearly, absolutely mad on Town and this was clearly evident throughout our conversation.Not once did he show any signs of feeling sorry for himself, despite his predicament.
I remember Matty being on the "Battlebus" to Wimbledon on the last game of last season with his Dad and remember thinking how much he seemed to enjoy the day.The sun shone brightly that day, just as I hope it is shining on you now Matty.  
Through reading the Fishy, following the Donny friendly, it was apparent that Matty was seriously ill.
I went to see Matty a couple of weeks ago, at his home in Louth, to give him my best wishes and to try and add some cheer to his day, through talking to him about the Mariners.
I was welcomed  into his home by members of his family and when I went up to see him, I was delighted to see him sat in his chair, laptop across his knees, surfing his beloved "Fishy".We had a chat, and I remember thinking what an outstandingly courageous young man, I had had the great privilege to have met. He was cheerful and positive, even in the face of great adversity, and a credit to his family.
Before I left, following my short visit, I chatted to his Mum, Dot, who I can only describe as an absolute rock for her son.She told me how Matty and the family had enjoyed a family holiday to Paris and they had spent great quality time together.As I thanked her for her time and left, I felt a great sense of sadness at the injustice in this world.Imagine my surprise when Matty summoned the courage and belief to entertain Michael Leary, meet the management and players at both the training ground and in hospital and share this with us all on the Fishy! Fantastic!He attended the Fleetwood game too and proudly wore his squad number, as did his family!  
I am sorry to say that this was the last time I spoke to Matty and I am deeply saddened by his loss.
I would just like to finally say that we are all proud of you Matty and I add my tribute to you, to the hundreds of others on your favourite Town website.Good night - God bless fellow Mariner!  



A fitting tribute from you, Ponnyfan, I'm sure your eloquent words some up everyone's feelings.
Posted by: bradzmilne, August 19, 2011, 1:34pm; Reply: 156
Quoted from ponnyfan
I have just returned from two days away with work, and I have just read with great humility, this heart rendering thread about Matty.
I first met Matty towards the last few games of last season, when he introduced himself to me at a home game, through a mutual friend, Marc Reed.Having previously read about Matty's plight on his journey thread, I understood, to a degree what he was going through.
I can only say that he was clearly, absolutely mad on Town and this was clearly evident throughout our conversation.Not once did he show any signs of feeling sorry for himself, despite his predicament.
I remember Matty being on the "Battlebus" to Wimbledon on the last game of last season with his Dad and remember thinking how much he seemed to enjoy the day.The sun shone brightly that day, just as I hope it is shining on you now Matty.  
Through reading the Fishy, following the Donny friendly, it was apparent that Matty was seriously ill.
I went to see Matty a couple of weeks ago, at his home in Louth, to give him my best wishes and to try and add some cheer to his day, through talking to him about the Mariners.
I was welcomed  into his home by members of his family and when I went up to see him, I was delighted to see him sat in his chair, laptop across his knees, surfing his beloved "Fishy".We had a chat, and I remember thinking what an outstandingly courageous young man, I had had the great privilege to have met. He was cheerful and positive, even in the face of great adversity, and a credit to his family.
Before I left, following my short visit, I chatted to his Mum, Dot, who I can only describe as an absolute rock for her son.She told me how Matty and the family had enjoyed a family holiday to Paris and they had spent great quality time together.As I thanked her for her time and left, I felt a great sense of sadness at the injustice in this world.Imagine my surprise when Matty summoned the courage and belief to entertain Michael Leary, meet the management and players at both the training ground and in hospital and share this with us all on the Fishy! Fantastic!He attended the Fleetwood game too and proudly wore his squad number, as did his family!  
I am sorry to say that this was the last time I spoke to Matty and I am deeply saddened by his loss.
I would just like to finally say that we are all proud of you Matty and I add my tribute to you, to the hundreds of others on your favourite Town website.Good night - God bless fellow Mariner!  




screw post of the week, post of the year. Tear to my eye
Posted by: Mariners_15, August 19, 2011, 4:13pm; Reply: 157
Quoted from ponnyfan
I have just returned from two days away with work, and I have just read with great humility, this heart rendering thread about Matty.
I first met Matty towards the last few games of last season, when he introduced himself to me at a home game, through a mutual friend, Marc Reed.Having previously read about Matty's plight on his journey thread, I understood, to a degree what he was going through.
I can only say that he was clearly, absolutely mad on Town and this was clearly evident throughout our conversation.Not once did he show any signs of feeling sorry for himself, despite his predicament.
I remember Matty being on the "Battlebus" to Wimbledon on the last game of last season with his Dad and remember thinking how much he seemed to enjoy the day.The sun shone brightly that day, just as I hope it is shining on you now Matty.  
Through reading the Fishy, following the Donny friendly, it was apparent that Matty was seriously ill.
I went to see Matty a couple of weeks ago, at his home in Louth, to give him my best wishes and to try and add some cheer to his day, through talking to him about the Mariners.
I was welcomed  into his home by members of his family and when I went up to see him, I was delighted to see him sat in his chair, laptop across his knees, surfing his beloved "Fishy".We had a chat, and I remember thinking what an outstandingly courageous young man, I had had the great privilege to have met. He was cheerful and positive, even in the face of great adversity, and a credit to his family.
Before I left, following my short visit, I chatted to his Mum, Dot, who I can only describe as an absolute rock for her son.She told me how Matty and the family had enjoyed a family holiday to Paris and they had spent great quality time together.As I thanked her for her time and left, I felt a great sense of sadness at the injustice in this world.Imagine my surprise when Matty summoned the courage and belief to entertain Michael Leary, meet the management and players at both the training ground and in hospital and share this with us all on the Fishy! Fantastic!He attended the Fleetwood game too and proudly wore his squad number, as did his family!  
I am sorry to say that this was the last time I spoke to Matty and I am deeply saddened by his loss.
I would just like to finally say that we are all proud of you Matty and I add my tribute to you, to the hundreds of others on your favourite Town website.Good night - God bless fellow Mariner!  



Got to be post of the century, the sentiments are echoed and it's fantastic to see fans pulling together despite things being tough on the pitch!
Proud to be a Grimsby fan!

UTM!
ALWAYS! :B

Posted by: aaron rattray, August 19, 2011, 4:27pm; Reply: 158
i didnt get on with matt at all AT ALL but he has gone to a better place where nothing can halm him now he is safe forever and hes with icey now and although we wont see him or hear him ever again he shall be there forever RIP MATT
Posted by: siy2k5, August 19, 2011, 10:11pm; Reply: 159
Quoted from aaron rattray
i didnt get on with matt at all AT ALL but he has gone to a better place where nothing can halm him now he is safe forever and hes with icey now and although we wont see him or hear him ever again he shall be there forever RIP MATT


You just had to didnt you?

Steve, would it be worth asking Rob/Biccys to make  sticky thread with Mattys funeral/charity details on, so they can be easily found? Just a thought.
Posted by: ginnywings, August 19, 2011, 11:31pm; Reply: 160
Just shy of two years ago (17th Sept 2009 to be precise) my brother and mentor lost his long battle with this awful disease.Two days later on the 19th,which would have been my Dads birthday if he had still been with us,we played Torquay away.It was also the day that my partners youngest daughter started uni at Sunderland and her mother was driving her there.I decided to go along,just to take my mind off things and we set off early in the morning.

It was a pleasant trip on empty roads and we duly dropped her off and got her settled in.On the way back,we had just passed Hartlepool and i could see my partner was upset,so i suggested we stop somewhere for a breather.She pulled over in some delapidated ex mining village south of Hartlepool and we walked across some grassland to the beach,sat down and both burst into tears while looking out to sea.I was upset about my brother and she was upset at "losing" her youngest.

It got me thinking about the cycle of life.My brother had lived his life and my partners daughter was just starting out on adulthood,with all that life entails before her.

Young Matt never got any of that and it's so sad to read of his passing at such a young age.Life can be so cruel.

On the way home after our stop,i suddenly remembered Town were playing away at Torquay,which was one of my brothers favourite places,having worked there as a young man.I tried to tune into Humberside but no go,we were too far North,but somewhere around York,i finally found it and we were winning.We went on to record a rare away victory and i felt a little better about things.

It could be said that football doesn't matter at a time like this,but Matt thought it mattered and he lived for his football and GTFC.I really hope we can win on Saturday just to raise the general mood a bit and i'm sure Matt would smile down on us.

UTFM
Posted by: 1739 (Guest), August 19, 2011, 11:43pm; Reply: 161
Reading some of these posts makes you proud to be a Grimbarian . Ive only spoke to Matty once but he is one of the most polite and kind lads you can meet , such a sad loss to the club . So passionate about his club and im sure he will be painting heaven black and white . He will be looking down at us all on saturday afternoons and im sure we will still hear the echos of his voice coming from the pontoon . R.I.P Matty - A true Mariner .
Posted by: FishOutOfWater, August 20, 2011, 12:21pm; Reply: 162
Quoted from ginnywings
Just shy of two years ago (17th Sept 2009 to be precise) my brother and mentor lost his long battle with this awful disease.Two days later on the 19th,which would have been my Dads birthday if he had still been with us,we played Torquay away.It was also the day that my partners youngest daughter started uni at Sunderland and her mother was driving her there.I decided to go along,just to take my mind off things and we set off early in the morning.

It was a pleasant trip on empty roads and we duly dropped her off and got her settled in.On the way back,we had just passed Hartlepool and i could see my partner was upset,so i suggested we stop somewhere for a breather.She pulled over in some delapidated ex mining village south of Hartlepool and we walked across some grassland to the beach,sat down and both burst into tears while looking out to sea.I was upset about my brother and she was upset at "losing" her youngest.

It got me thinking about the cycle of life.My brother had lived his life and my partners daughter was just starting out on adulthood,with all that life entails before her.

Young Matt never got any of that and it's so sad to read of his passing at such a young age.Life can be so cruel.

On the way home after our stop,i suddenly remembered Town were playing away at Torquay,which was one of my brothers favourite places,having worked there as a young man.I tried to tune into Humberside but no go,we were too far North,but somewhere around York,i finally found it and we were winning.We went on to record a rare away victory and i felt a little better about things.

It could be said that football doesn't matter at a time like this,but Matt thought it mattered and he lived for his football and GTFC.I really hope we can win on Saturday just to raise the general mood a bit and i'm sure Matt would smile down on us.

UTFM


Understand where you're coming from Ginnywings....

Football, especially The Mariners, clearly meant so much to Matty as it does to most of us on here....it's inextricably linked with all the other things that go on in our lives

It might have to take a back seat when the real tragedies such as his young life being taken stops us in our tracks, but it's there in the background, running parallel to the more important issues

I recall the day my dad passed on (also a victim of the big "C" ) and as devasted as I was I knew that less than an hour after he died we were playing Northampton at home....my dad had been based there when in the army and was a cobbler himself, with his soul going to a better place when we were playing the Cobblers. In my own little world, right amongst my grief, I couldn't believe the irony.

I feel it's times like this that you recognise your own mortality and the scene you portrayed looking out on that beach is also really poignant....my eldest found out this week she has won a place at uni and I can't help but think she's only a couple of years younger than Matty. Life is so unfair sometimes and lots of poor Matty's dreams will never be realised when he was at a stage in his life where the world should have been his oyster.

I so feel for his parents and other family members right now, knowng their hurt will last them a lifetime with only good memories available to them

One thing that I hope comforts them though is the support they have from this Fishy community....we all share the same hopes and dreams for our club but at our lowest point, the sad news on the field totally over-shadows by the loss of one of our own.

UTM GTID
Posted by: Pontoon Steve, August 20, 2011, 12:56pm; Reply: 163
Reply tosiy2k5

Steve, would it be worth asking Rob/Biccys to make  sticky thread with Mattys funeral/charity details on, so they can be easily found? Just a thought.

You can do, all we want to do now is to raise as much money as possible for his chosen charity, in the pass  Matty and his family has raised between £1000 and £1500 pound in the last 2 years.
Not a lot of people have heared of CLIC Sargent, but they look after young people up to the age of 23, the first day we arrived at QMC Nottingham we were sat in the waiting room and the first people we saw were CLIC Sergent, and they have been with us from day 1 right up to the end.
Posted by: sonofmadeleymariner, August 20, 2011, 1:31pm; Reply: 164
RIP Matty
Posted by: 1mickylyons, August 20, 2011, 3:07pm; Reply: 165
Just got back to read this terrible news ,i only met Matty the once when he bought some Town memorabilia from me and i only hope he got some pleasure out of it.Like Ginny says football has the wonderful ability to raise spirits and if the Town players show some guts and passion about the shirt just maybe Matt will be smiling down tonight at 5pm.
Posted by: sutton mariner, August 20, 2011, 3:15pm; Reply: 166
Quoted from 1mickylyons
Just got back to read this terrible news ,i only met Matty the once when he bought some Town memorabilia from me and i only hope he got some pleasure out of it.Like Ginny says football has the wonderful ability to raise spirits and if the Town players show some guts and passion about the shirt just maybe Matt will be smiling down tonight at 5pm.


Do it for Matty Town!!
Posted by: ponnyfan, August 24, 2011, 12:39am; Reply: 167
Please can we make this a sticky?
Posted by: sutton mariner, August 24, 2011, 12:47am; Reply: 168
Quoted from ponnyfan
Please can we make this a sticky?


Seconded
Posted by: gtfcbean, August 25, 2011, 6:55am; Reply: 169
Have missed this due to 'being away'
Matty mate i hope ur looking down on us wiv a smile as ur the brightest star up there RIP Buddy
Posted by: sutton mariner, January 18, 2012, 10:07pm; Reply: 170
5 months have now passed :'( I feel your finally starting to work your magic Matty ;)

Never forgoten

UTM
Posted by: bradzmilne, January 18, 2012, 10:50pm; Reply: 171
Quoted from sutton mariner
5 months have now passed :'( I feel your finally starting to work your magic Matty ;)

Never forgoten

UTM


Just reread his story, have a lump in my throat. Only met him on a handful of occasions but what a nice lad he was.
Think your end statement might be true sutton
R.I.P Matty x
Posted by: Pontoon Steve, January 19, 2012, 12:39pm; Reply: 172
Yeap Matt'y is now looking down and smiling,  :) the week before his death, Scott n Hurst asked him for his prediction for the coming season, and he said the play offs. Going back to 2007 in the Paint Pot Trophy after the first match he predicted Town would get to the final, and we all laughed at him. I hope that his prediction for the play offs work out this season, and come May we are all celebrating a return to the football league.
Posted by: yeselygotham, January 21, 2012, 2:51pm; Reply: 173
this news is  sensational one.
Posted by: aaron rattray, July 11, 2012, 10:22am; Reply: 174
I have just thought and realised, this is the first full season without him, lets hope town shall do him proud
Posted by: Super Clive, July 14, 2012, 2:07pm; Reply: 175
Reading through the thread again  last night, I was an emotional reck. Miss Matt loads especially during games with our banter.
Hope everything is going well up there Matt. Best seat in the house pal. cant wait to meet up with you again.

Take care mate, love ya x
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